() This question is really embarrassing to talk about, especially in front of my sister-in-law…
Yang Yi looked at Xixi’s curious eyes and said helplessly: “Of course my father is like a boy…because my father is also a boy!”
“But, but…” Xixi still wanted to say something.
“Okay!” Yang Yi rubbed the little girl’s head, and said incredulously, “What’s the problem, we’ll talk about it when we get home, now it’s dinner time, so don’t talk about it.”
“Okay…” Xixi said regretfully, she was still a little unfinished, and it seemed that this topic could still be discussed.
I managed to appease Xixi, but this faint feeling of embarrassment lingered in this hotel box, until Mo Xiaojuan left early after lunch, excused that something was wrong.
Anyway, Yang Yi is back, so she doesn’t need to accompany Murphy.
At noon, after Xixi went to bed, Yang Yi came to the bedroom next door. Murphy was lying on his side on the bed, humming a song softly, coaxing Xiao Jiao, who was a little noisy and wanted to play, to sleep.
The little guy is still quite cute when he is asleep, with one small hand on his stomach and the other on his side, then his little face turned to his mother’s direction, his pursed little mouth raised slightly, I don’t know if it was Not listening to music and falling asleep is very happy.
Murphy saw that Xiaojiao fell asleep, she breathed a sigh of relief, and carried the little guy to the crib, so that she could lie beside Yang Yi in peace.
“I don’t know, Xixi is so curious to see Jiaojia’s ***.” Murphy pulled Yang Yi’s hand over so that she could snuggle in his arms, and then looked at Yang Yi’s side Face asked, “You said, do I need to find a chance to talk to her about this matter?”
Mo Xiaojuan came to accompany her today. The two sisters watched TV together, chatted, and of course, took care of the children. Xixi is alright, she played house games with her dolls on the side, and Murphy doesn’t need to worry about it, and Xiaojiao is the same. He has not yet reached the time when he can crawl and explore the world. Hold him or put him in a small shaker, and the little guy can stare at the little stars hanging on the small shaker for a long time.
Since Murphy’s marriage, the two sisters haven’t had time to sit down and chat. This time, Murphy didn’t ask Mo Xiaojuan about her marriage either. It was useless to force her, so she could only follow the fate. The two of them were just like before, watching people on TV make comments.
Either discuss the dresses of some female stars, or study which male stars are more handsome. These girls’ topics were often talked about when they were young. Now, when they chat jokingly, it can be regarded as reliving the memories of those girls.
Mo Xiaojuan’s vision is slightly different from Murphy’s. She prefers good-looking men. This good-looking man obviously adds some feminine elements to the handsome.
“But not only good-looking, but also mature and gentle. Those little boys can’t stand it. I can’t stand their stupid appearance.” Mo Xiaojuan said.
She also commented on Murphy’s vision: “Sister, your vision is not good. I’m not saying that my brother-in-law is not good. He is very good and mature. He is gentle enough for you, but not good-looking! Not even handsome enough. Of course, it’s pointless to say this now, you’re already his!”
Although Mo Xiaojuan is joking, Murphy is very dissatisfied with Mo Xiaojuan’s evaluation. In her opinion, Yang Yi is very handsome, really handsome!
I didn’t think so before, but since Yang Yi’s personality has changed, he’s not as sloppy as before, his hair is neatly shaved, his beard is generally neatly shaved, and Murphy’s taste in dressing has improved. I also think Yang Yi is very handsome!
This is not a lover’s eyes, but Murphy really thinks that Yang Yi is in line with his own aesthetics, and the more he looks at it, the more attractive he is. Now looking at Yang Yi’s tough profile, and the deep Starry sky’s eyes, Murphy felt that his heart was a little rippling.
How can such a man not be handsome?
Of course Yang Yi didn’t know the whispers between Murphy and Mo Xiaojuan’s sisters. He was thinking about what Murphy said.
“I don’t think it’s necessary to go to great lengths to discuss these issues with Xixi,” Yang Yi told Murphy.
“But, the little cards you made before, let me tell Xixi about **** education, didn’t it work well?” Murphy said puzzled, “Why don’t you continue to tell Xixi? She is so curious. , should satisfy her curiosity and prevent her from groping for herself.”
Yang Yi shook his head gently and said, “The nature of these two is different. Xixi is at the age when her gender consciousness germinates, so she is very curious about these. However, as parents, we, as parents, treat our children like this In other words, Xixi needs to know the difference between men and women, but she doesn’t need to know too much, so as not to arouse her greater curiosity.”
“For example, we can tell her that boys are different from girls. Boys go to boys’ toilets, girls go to girls’ toilets, and they can’t be seen by others when they go to the toilet, but there is no need to tell her that they will be caught by others. It’s not good to see what will happen, what those bad people will do. Or for example, we can tell her that kissing is not allowed between boys and girls, but there is no need to tell her that you are so young and ignorant, kissing boys will be taken advantage of.”
“I see, these adults don’t need to be indoctrinated prematurely into their children.” Murphy realized.
“Yes, including the difference between men and women, what is the purpose of that difference, we don’t need to tell her yet.” Yang Yi smiled.
“What should I do then? How can I guide Xixi’s curiosity as you said?” Murphy asked inexplicably.
“I’ll talk to her later about this!” Yang Yi said thoughtfully.
In the afternoon, Yang Yi found a time, took a few printed pictures, and sat in front of Xixi.
“Mom told Dad today, you are very curious, why your brother doesn’t look like you, right?” Yang Yi said softly to Xixi who was playing with her toys.
“Hmm!” The little girl suddenly regained her spirits, her hands stopped moving, her eyes filled with concentration, and she said to her father, “Mama said it was different when she went to the toilet.”
“Well, my mother is right, but not entirely right.” Yang Yi smiled, “Dad told you a fairy tale, of course, it may be true or false. A long time ago, there was a fairy tale. The goddess is called Nuwa…”
Yang Yi told the story of Nuwa’s creation of man. However, this story was modified by Yang Yi. Men and women are different when they knead the soil.
“You’ve also played with plasticine, and the things you squeeze out are a little hard to control. Even if you want to squeeze out two identical piglets, they still look different, right?”
Xixi nodded ignorantly.
“Yes, so when Nuwa kneads people with magical clay, the shape of the people is also different, so there is a difference between boys and girls. This is a normal thing.” Yang Yi said .
“Look, what are these two pictures?” Yang Yi took out two pictures and asked Xixi with a smile.
“Lion! Hee hee, Baba, I know lions!” When the little girl answered the question she knew, she smiled and gradually forgot her persistent curiosity at first.
“Yes, what’s the difference between these two lions?” Yang Yi said.
“The one with big hair is a boy lion, and the one without hair is a girl lion!” Xixi put down her toys, moved to her father’s side, held her father’s hand, and said cheerfully.
These Yang Yi told her when she was looking at the album before, that the little girl has a good memory~IndoMTL.com~ What about this? “Yang Yi took out two pictures of kangaroos, “What’s the difference between these two?” “
“This baby is sitting in the belly of a kangaroo, and this is a kangaroo!” Xixi can tell the difference. Before Lu Weisha sent a photo, Yang Yi told her that the one with the pouch was the mother kangaroo. , there is no male kangaroo.
“Right? So, lions and kangaroos have their own differences, and so do humans, but we have wisdom. In addition to these physical differences, we can also tell from their clothes and hair who they are. Boys or girls… At least most of them can be clearly distinguished.” Yang Yi and Xixi concluded.
Guiding the difference between organs to major differences, it’s a macro but it seems to make sense. Xixi understands it and smiles: “Boys have short hair, and girls have long hair. !”
“This is not certain, but it’s basically the same. It doesn’t matter. If you look at other people’s faces in the future, you can also see some differences.” Yang Yi rubbed the little girl’s head with a smile and said, “In the future If there is anything you don’t understand, ask Dad again, okay?”
“Hmmmm!” The little girl finally nodded her head contentedly.