Dad’s question is too good to answer, I am not happy playing the game of stacking cups, of course I am happy! Xixi smiled and nodded with her father.
“Then Dad describes an environment to you, that is, if you are given a room, such as our present bedroom, you are alone in the room playing folding cups, do you feel happy, or do we have fun tonight?” Yang Yi’s problem is clearly described.
However, Xixi’s mind was still wide open. She tilted her little head and asked curiously, “Will Xiner play with me?”
“There is no Xiner, only you.” Yang Yi shook his head.
Xixi blinked, then shook her head quickly, and said with a small mouth, “I don’t want to play alone!”
When Xixi was little, she was really lonely, but since she was four years old, she was accompanied by her father at home, and her mother and father would take her out on business trips. She has made many good friends, which makes her a little unaccustomed to being alone!
Yang Yi mentioned this just to make a small comparison, and didn’t intend to scare Xixi, so I saw him smile slightly, and then said: “Then do you think that when you play tonight, you fold the cups? The stacking is so great, and when your parents, and your younger brother applaud you, you feel a sense of accomplishment?”
Xixi immediately thought of the feeling just now, and suddenly became excited: “Mmmm, yes, super happy!”
“So, this is one thing we work hard to do, not only for ourselves, but also to be recognized by more people. Compliment or encouragement from others is a blessing to each of us. Very strong motivation! Don’t you feel happier after getting everyone’s praise and hope you can do better?” Yang Yi clenched his fist and said to Xixi.
Xixi nodded obediently.
“Do you think that they are not happy when Dad asks you to come along, applaud your mother, or applaud your younger brother?” Yang Yi then threw another question.
Xixi’s eyes lit up. She had something to say on this topic, but she happily grabbed her father’s hand and said, “Baba, let me tell you, you and I, and my brother, give Ma After Ma applauded, Mama was willing to play folding cups, and then she didn’t even know that she was also super powerful!”
Looking at the happy look of the little girl, it seems that Murphy also shares the credit for being able to play fast stacking cups.
Yang Yi was amused by the innocent appearance of the little girl, he laughed, stretched out his right hand and rubbed Xixi’s slightly damp hair, and said, “Yes, your encouragement is very important!”
“And my brother, he also likes to play, and when I give him a thumbs up, he is also very happy!” Xixi gestured her little thumb with her father and smiled hilariously .
“Well, yes, this is the first topic Dad wants to talk to you tonight. We can’t bear to say something encouraging to others!” Yang Yi said softly, “You can see how powerful encouragement is. Powerful? Whether it’s someone encouraging you or you encouraging others, it’s just such a short sentence, just such a simple gesture…”
Yang Yi gave a thumbs up and pointed to Xixi: “Things that are easy to do can be given to others, or others can give us more joy and better motivation. “
Although Dad was laughing, his attitude was correct. Xixi also felt it, so she looked at Dad intently and listened carefully.
“Don’t underestimate this little encouragement. Although this kind of encouragement is not the key to a person’s success, this encouragement can help the other person and make one thing better!” Yang Yi said softly , “You think, tonight you are in such a good mood. You can fold the cups quickly and accurately. If you don’t have the encouragement of your father, mother, and brother, you are in a relatively normal mood. Is it possible that you would not be so good?”
Xixi nodded vigorously. These metaphors from Dad are relatively easy to understand. Until now, Xixi didn’t have too much burden listening to it, because she was still in a state of ignorance and didn’t know where these big principles should be used.
“Why did Dad talk to you about this topic?” Yang Yi smiled slightly and said, “Because this evening, when Dad picked you up and Xiner home, you and Xiner were in the car, it wasn’t that you didn’t Do you like the monitor to take care of the little girl?”
Xixi saw that her father suddenly mentioned this matter, and realized that she might have done something wrong. She twisted in the chair nervously and nodded reluctantly.
“Dad thinks that your mentality may not be very good. Before we do something, we deny the ability of others, which will bring negative energy to the other party and to us.” Yang Yi He said with a smile, “Dad said this, it may be difficult for you to understand, that is, we think in a different way, if we didn’t look at this issue with such an unhappy mentality at the beginning, but told my father before. In that case, go and tell Cao Ruolin, squad leader, I believe you will take good care of Xiaoya, you are also a very caring person! Then, when she becomes in a good mood, will she also work hard to take care of Xiaoya? ”
Xixi pouted her mouth reluctantly and said, “But, I hope Xiaoya can come to our house to play!”
“This is the second topic Dad wants to talk to you tonight, we have to have a heart for perfection, but what we have to do is not perfection, but perfection! Because in this world, not all We can all satisfy our own wishes.” Yang Yi took tonight’s event as an example, “For example, tonight, when you play folding cups, you think you can fold quickly. Compared with your parents, who is it? Fold faster?”
Being exposed to reality, Xixi felt very unhappy, she reluctantly muttered: “Baba and Mama are faster.”
“Yeah, you didn’t do your best, but that’s okay! Dad still thinks you did a good job tonight, and you’re happy, and we’re all happy because even though you didn’t do your best Good, but Dad thinks that you have done a great job. You can do so well on the first day of playing, and there will be better progress in the future! Thinking of this, your performance is worthy of praise and joy. , do you think so?” Yang Yi said softly.
Xixi heard what her father said. After thinking about it carefully, she did well. No wonder her father and mother were so happy and in a better mood. She smiled and said, “Yes!” /
“So ah, we want to be the best, but sometimes, we can’t be the best, it doesn’t matter, as long as we put in the effort, get progress, or get what we should have at this stage The result of ~IndoMTL.com~ is already very good!” Yang Yi gave Xixi a thumbs up.
“The reason for inviting Xiaoya to be a guest at our house is the same. You are very kind. I hope Xiaoya can come to the house and be well taken care of. This idea is very good, but other students also have the same idea. Everyone can be satisfied. So the teacher also considered this issue. Maybe this weekend, Xiaoya went to the home of the monitor, Cao Ruolin. Next week, maybe Xiaoya will come to our house. It may come.”
“The teacher believes in you very much. You are all very caring children. No matter where Xiaoya goes to play, she will definitely have a good time.” Yang Yi said softly, “If it is next week, Xiaoya will have fun. When you come to our house, will you also treat it warmly?”
“Of course!” Xixi nodded vigorously and said with a louder voice, “I want to give Xiaoya my room so that they won’t scare Xiaoya!”
“Look, although Xiaoya didn’t come to our house this weekend, it’s not perfect, but if it comes in the future, you will still be very happy, won’t you?” Yang Yi said softly.
“Yeah!” Xixi nodded faster this time, but this time she didn’t smile, she just pursed her lips and tried to accept.
“Then if we don’t want to be so low, we are happy to congratulate Cao Ruolin and encourage her. I hope she will take good care of Xiaoya. Next time Xiaoya comes to our house, we will come and take better care of Xiaoya. Ah, can you be happy too?” Yang Yi said with a smile.
“Actually, the squad leader is actually very good. On Thursday, she was not afraid when she wiped the stinky little girl, and then she bought a lot of rags!” Xixi finally said a fair word, Originally, these discoveries were hidden in her heart.