House Dad’s Literary Life Chapter 913: Pity the world’s parents

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有诗曾曰:“十月叶落秋寒,路上行人凄凉。小桥流水远方,断肠人是小兰……”

There is a poem that once said: “In October, the leaves fall and the autumn is cold, and the pedestrians on the road are desolate. The bridge is far away, and the heartbroken person is Xiaolan…”

说的就是这样一个秋高气爽的下午,有个胖胖的小姑娘,风风火火地在没有什么行人的小路上跑过。这是她打出生以来最认真的一次跑步,但她无比地坚定,也从未回头,尽管气喘吁吁,也未曾想过停下来休息!

It’s about such a crisp autumn afternoon. There was a fat little girl who ran along a small road with no pedestrians. This was the most serious run she had ever run since she was born, but she was extremely determined and never looked back. Although she was out of breath, she never thought of stopping to rest!

这一刻的她,是胖版的博尔特,是萌娃版的阿甘,是永不放弃的灰太狼……

At this moment, she is the fat version of Bolt, the cute baby version of Forrest Gump, and the never-give-up Big Wolf…

“呼呼,呼呼!”兰馨终于跑到了曦曦的家,迫不及待地回到了小伙伴们的中间。当然,她还是跑得很累,一回来,都累瘫在了草地上喘着粗气。

“Huhu, Huhu!” Lan Xin finally ran to Xixi’s house and couldn’t wait to return to the middle of her friends. Of course, she was still very tired from running, and when she came back, she collapsed on the grass and panted heavily.

曦曦她们没有继续呆在屋子里玩,因为人开始多了起来,还是在院子里玩比较放得开!而且,现在下午三点多钟,阳光明媚,正是户外活动的好时间!

Xixi and the others didn’t continue to play in the house, because more people started to play, so it’s better to play in the yard! And, it’s now 3pm and the sun is shining and it’s a great time for outdoor activities!

兰馨回来的时候,曦曦她们正在玩老鹰抓小鸡的游戏,玩得正开心,没有人注意到混进来的兰馨。

When Lan Xin came back, Xixi and the others were playing the game of eagle catching chickens, and they were having a good time. No one noticed Lan Xin who had sneaked in.

这一轮,负责抓的是陈诗云,而负责当母鸡的是身材弱小的南昭宇。陈诗云气势汹汹,南昭宇都有些害怕,他还是有点男生的勇气和保护欲,很努力地张开双臂拦着陈诗云。

This round, Chen Shiyun was in charge of catching, and the weak Nan Zhaoyu was in charge of being a hen. Chen Shiyun was aggressive, and Nan Zhaoyu was a little scared. He still had the courage and desire to protect a boy, so he tried very hard to stop Chen Shiyun with open arms.

当然他背后的那些女生们比他厉害多了,一个个咯咯地笑着,抱着前面同伴的腰,躲得飞快。陈诗云一时间都找不到什么突破的破绽!

Of course, the girls behind him are much more powerful than him, giggling one by one, hugging the waist of the companion in front, and dodging quickly. Chen Shiyun couldn’t find any breakthrough for a while!

忽然,她发现有一只“倒”在地上的“小鸡”,兴奋地扑了上去,按住了兰馨。但很快她发现自己高兴得太早了!

Suddenly, she found a “chicken” that “falls” on the ground, and jumped up excitedly, holding Lan Xin down. But soon she found herself happy too soon!

“咦,馨儿回来了!”陈诗云嚷嚷地叫了起来。

“Hey, Xiner is back!” Chen Shiyun shouted.

小伙伴们这才看到还没把气喘匀的兰馨。

My friends, I just saw Lan Xin, who was still out of breath.

“对诶,馨儿,你怎么回来了?”陆晓瑜挠了挠头,从曦曦身后探出头来,好奇地问道,“不是说班主任老师去你家了吗?”

“That’s right, Xiner, why are you back?” Lu Xiaoyu scratched her head, stuck her head out from behind Xixi, and asked curiously, “Didn’t the head teacher go to your house?”

“对呀,对呀!难道老师已经回去了?”曦曦都有些焦急了。

“Yes, yes! Could it be that the teacher has already gone back?” Xixi was a little anxious.

老师还没到我家来呢!

The teacher hasn’t come to my house yet!

兰馨也想回答问题,但她累得有点说不出话来,好一会儿,才喘着气,言简意赅地说道:“没有,还在的,但,但老师同意我来玩了!”

Lan Xin also wanted to answer the question, but she was too tired to speak. After a while, she gasped and said succinctly: “No, it’s still there, but, but the teacher agreed with me to come and play! “

听到兰馨说老师还在,曦曦松了一口气,也恢复了笑容。

Hearing Lan Xin say that the teacher is still here, Xixi breathed a sigh of relief and resumed her smile.

其实,要是平时,兰馨还是乐于说一下自己的感受的,但此时她还在喘气,都不想多说话。

Actually, in normal times, Lan Xin would still be happy to talk about her feelings, but at this time she was still panting and didn’t want to talk much.

而一会儿,等兰馨歇够了,她又迫不及待地加入小伙伴们的游戏中,哪里顾得上聊天。

And for a while, when Lan Xin has had enough rest, she can’t wait to join the games of her friends, so she can’t care about chatting.

“好吧!”陆晓瑜可怜地看了一眼兰馨,她可是知道老师家访的威力,不过,她也没有说什么,而是兴致勃勃地招呼着大家,“我们继续玩吧!陈诗云你刚才没有抓到人哦,抓到馨儿可不算的!”

“Okay!” Lu Xiaoyu gave Lan Xin a pitiful glance, she knew the power of the teacher’s home visit, but she didn’t say anything, but greeted everyone with enthusiasm, “Let’s continue playing! Chen Shiyun, you I didn’t catch anyone just now, but it doesn’t count for catching Xiner!”

陈诗云没有耍赖,她卷了卷袖子,元气满满地叫道:“我会抓到你们的!来吧!”

Chen Shiyun didn’t cheat, she rolled up her sleeves and shouted full of energy: “I will catch you! Come on!”

……

话分两头,在兰馨家这边,李若岚正在跟兰州凯和吴静静讨论着兰馨的学习问题。

The words are divided into two parts. On Lan Xin’s house, Li Ruolan is discussing Lan Xin’s study with Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing.

正如之前吴静静跟于颖说的那样,兰馨的成绩确实是出现了退步的情况,最近几次小测验,兰馨的成绩从八十多分掉到了七十多分,李若岚也正是因为这个原因过来家访。

As Wu Jingjing told Yu Ying before, Lan Xin’s grades have indeed deteriorated. In recent quizzes, Lan Xin’s grades have dropped from more than 80 points to more than 70 points, and Li Ruolan is also correct. It was for this reason that I came to visit.

当然,李若岚不是过来将责任推卸到家长身上的,她更加详细地描述了兰馨出现的一些问题。

Of course, Li Ruolan did not come to pass the buck to the parents. She described some of Lan Xin’s problems in more detail.

比如上课走神,比如做作业偷工减料,比如没有认真地完成老师要求的背诵课文的任务……

For example, distracted in class, such as doing homework and cutting corners, such as not completing the task of reciting the text required by the teacher…

除此之外,李若岚还转达了从体育课鲁大山老师那边反馈得来的意见:“兰馨她不爱参加体育运动,你们应该也知道,兰馨这孩子,身体稍微有点胖,如果不多运动,减减肥,这会对她以后的身体是一个很大的负担,对以后的学习生活也有影响。”

In addition, Li Ruolan also conveyed the feedback from Teacher Lu Dashan of the PE class: “Lan Xin does not like to participate in sports, you should also know that Lan Xin is a little fat. , if she doesn’t exercise much and lose weight, it will be a big burden on her body in the future, and it will also affect her future study and life.”

兰州凯跟吴静静一直在点头,兰州凯还皱着眉头说道:“是的,李老师说得没错,只是馨儿她实在是有点难以管教,我们骂她骂得重一点,她好几天都会闹情绪,打的话,她妈又拦着我……”

Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing kept nodding, Lanzhou Kai frowned and said, “Yes, Teacher Li is right, but Xiner is really a bit difficult to discipline, we scold her a little harder, she is good I will get emotional for a few days, and if I hit, her mother will stop me…”

“不能打骂孩子。”李若岚连忙摆手说道,“打骂孩子并不是一个好的教育方法,反而还容易让孩子产生逆反的心理。”

“You can’t beat and scold children.” Li Ruolan quickly waved her hand and said, “beating and scolding children is not a good education method, but it is easy to make children feel rebellious.”

“其实我觉得兰馨这孩子还是很优秀的,无论是从智商上,还是从性格上来说,都是一个很好的孩子!”李若岚跟兰州凯、吴静静心平气和地说道,“只是可能在课余时间,需要你们家长配合一下我们老师,多给孩子一些耐心,用一些巧妙的方法,培养她的专注度。”

“Actually, I think Lan Xin is a very good kid, both in terms of IQ and personality, he is a very good kid!” Li Ruolan said calmly to Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing, “It’s just possible In the spare time, we need your parents to cooperate with our teachers, give your child some patience, and use some clever methods to cultivate her concentration.”

“我的工作比较忙,一般都是她妈妈在家里照看孩子,李老师,你有什么建议,尽管跟她说。”兰州凯拍了拍吴静静的膝盖,说道。

“I’m quite busy with work. Usually, her mother takes care of the children at home. Teacher Li, if you have any suggestions, just tell her.” Lanzhou Kai patted Wu Jingjing’s knee and said.

“对,我一定配合,只是李老师,实话跟你说,馨儿这孩子,拖延症现象很严重,人家曦曦一回来就把作业做完了,她拖拖拉拉的,一会儿说要吃饭,一会儿说要看电视,拖到晚上要睡觉都没做完作业。”吴静静跟老师倒起了苦水。

“Yes, I will definitely cooperate, but Mr. Li, to tell you the truth, Xiner is a child with serious procrastination. Xixi finished her homework as soon as she came back. She procrastinated and said she would After eating, I talked about watching TV for a while, and I didn’t finish my homework until I went to bed at night.” Wu Jingjing poured bitterness with the teacher.

“其实大多数孩子都不爱做作业,喜欢拖延。不过面对这些状况,我们家长的处理上应该更有技巧。”李若岚笑了笑,说道,“我举个例子,我们班有一个男生叫王磊磊,情况跟兰馨的差不多,他的爸爸就跟他说,你不做完作业,就不能看电视!所以为了看电视,他还是每天努力地先把作业做完了!”

“Actually, most children don’t like to do homework and like to procrastinate. However, in the face of these situations, our parents should be more skillful in handling them.” Li Ruolan smiled and said, “I will give an example, our class has A boy named Wang Leilei, the situation is similar to Lan Xin’s, his father told him, you can’t watch TV if you don’t finish your homework! So in order to watch TV, he still works hard every day to finish his homework first! “

“但每个孩子的情况不一样,兰馨是女孩子,可能你们需要语气更加温和,避免她产生抵触的态度。”李若岚说道,“你们可以这样,在孩子回来后,先跟她做一个整理。”

“But every child’s situation is different. Lan Xin is a girl. Maybe you need to be gentler to avoid her conflicting attitude.” Li Ruolan said, “You can do this. After the child comes back, talk to her first. Do a tidying up.”

李若岚拿出自己的笔记本,比划着说道:“问她,今天语文有什么作业呀?数学有什么作业,英语又有什么作业……一件件在白纸上写下来,比较一下每一科的作业的量!”

Li Ruolan took out her notebook and gestured and said, “Ask her, what homework is there for Chinese today? What homework is there for math, and what homework is there for English…Write it down on a piece of paper and compare each one. The amount of homework in one subject!”

“这个时候,就要做一个排序,我们家长要主动一些,帮她整理思路,从最简单,量最少,最容易完成的作业开始做起!因为完成一部分,孩子她自己本身就有成就感,这样去做下一部分的作业,她就更加有动力!”

“At this time, it is necessary to do a sorting. Our parents should take the initiative to help her organize her thoughts, starting with the simplest, least amount, and easiest homework to complete! Because after completing a part, the child herself has A sense of accomplishment, so she will be more motivated to do the next part of the homework!”

“但这个时候,或者说在三年级之前,我还是建议你们抽出时间来,陪孩子做作业。”李若岚说道,“不需要你们盯着她写每一个字,但你需要在她的身边陪伴。陪伴的时候,你可以织毛衣~IndoMTL.com~或者做一些动静很小的工作,不过不能玩手机,我们家长要以身作则。”

“But at this time, or before the third grade, I still recommend that you take time out and accompany your child to do homework.” Li Ruolan said, “You don’t need to stare at her and write every word, but you need to be in her homework. Accompanying you. When you are with me, you can knit sweaters~IndoMTL.com~ or do some work with little movement, but you can’t play with your mobile phone, we parents should lead by example.”

除了这些,李若岚还说了很多激励的小技巧,这些都是她从书上、从其他的老师那里取经,或者她也从一些成功的家长那里讨教来的经验。

In addition to these, Li Ruolan also talked about a lot of motivational tips, which she learned from books, from other teachers, or from some successful parents.

正如李若岚说的那样,她来家访,是来帮助孩子成长的,并不是来号召家长跟老师一起,给孩子上演双打的,一个多小时的详谈,李若岚耐心地分析和建议,让兰州凯和吴静静都大呼受益匪浅。

As Li Ruolan said, she came to visit her home to help children grow up, not to call on parents and teachers to play doubles for their children. After more than an hour of detailed discussion, Li Ruolan patiently analyzed and suggested, so that Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing both shouted that they had benefited a lot.

别看兰州凯是亿万富翁,地位超然,但此刻的他,也只是一个普普通通的父亲啊!

Don’t look at Lanzhou Kai as a billionaire with a detached status, but at the moment he is just an ordinary father!

哪有当父母的不关心自己孩子的呢?

How can a parent not care about his child?

兰州凯也很担心兰馨的学习,所以听到老师家访,他就不辞辛劳赶了回来。

Lanzhou Kai was also very worried about Lan Xin’s studies, so when he heard the teacher’s home visit, he rushed back without hesitation.

值得欣喜的是,他没白赶回来,老师的家访确实给了他很多启发。

The good news is that he didn’t come back in vain. The teacher’s home visit did give him a lot of inspiration.

就在李若岚准备要告辞离开而兰州凯盛情邀请她留下来吃饭的时候,截胡的杨轶来了。

Just when Li Ruolan was about to leave and Lanzhou Kai kindly invited her to stay for dinner, Yang Yi came.

       

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